I think with a fly-swatter lol. I thought that I was so smart. My sister and I didn't fight much as kids. My DH told them to quit or he was turning around and we were going home instead of going out for dinner. My dad was another ballgame he would stand in the hallway and hold both ends of the belt, make the circle and SNAP it to prepare us for the incoming doom. My parents just yell at me,threaten to take away my things,take away my things,and pull my hair!
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We should love and nurture our children. I wasn't really a bad kid so it wasn't a daily or even weekly occurance or anything. I never really cursed. I think that's more effective than anything else. They threatened to pull the car over to the side. You know it took me years to figure out how my dad could actually pinpoint each one of us in the back seat of the car. My mom used to tell us she was going to beat our behinds through she used a much cruder term when we got home.
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I was a smart mouth, too, and spent a LOT of time grounded. He then went out and got me my favorite salad. Two times stand out in my mind: Once, I'm not sure how old I was 6? I explain some of this in " A series of questions about spanking. She covers parenting, technology, business, and marketing, and her blog, NaturalAsPossibleMom. The boys have gone days without snacks, cereal, honey mustard, ketchup or frozen pizza because they cannot behave in a store long enough to get to those items.
They could have taken that power in the situation without spanking but for them that is what they do and it is not until they spank that the ultimately restore positive feelings toward their kid. When things got stressful and they got stressful a lot and we misbehaved, my mom hit us the same way that my grandmother hit her when she was a little girl. Leave a Reply Click here to cancel reply. It was in that moment I was reminded of why my husband and I intentionally do not spank our kids. When she hit me with a shoe it was on my behind, no place else. Sometimes he tried to get himself calm before spanking us, but that seriously just prolongs the fear and anxiety and helplessness. Especially, the "I'll give you something to cry about".